The Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program will help you flourish in every aspect of human potential, without leaving anything unresolved in your life. What’s the point of earning thousands of dollars a month if you have a job that makes you miserable? What’s the point of learning to live in the present if you don’t have a cent in your pocket to take care of your basic needs?
In short, Integral Evolution consists of becoming the best version of yourself in all areas of life. What would your life be like if it was positive in the mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, creative, economic, work, family and relational spheres?
“What a man can be, he must be.”
– Abraham Maslow
Maybe you have already looked for the key to change in books or courses on personal and spiritual growth, but you have not yet achieved the results you desire or a strategy that works for you. I know perfectly well how it feels to be dissatisfied. 10 years ago, my life was a total mess and I had to face and overcome many challenges to find my way and change direction.
The Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program consists of a FREE 30-minute discovery call, to take stock of your situation and challenges and four 60-minute coaching sessions. The conversations take place via Skype.
Through our collaboration, I can drastically facilitate your growth by sharing with you the most effective strategies to reach and express your maximum potential and regain control of your life. You might be wondering why you should work with me. To properly explain the benefits of working with me, it is necessary to tell you my story.
My Story
My childhood was very difficult, due to an extremely problematic family life. My parents divorced when I was only 5 years old. Without going into details, out of respect for the people involved, I can tell you that their divorce was one of those so turbulent that you could write a novel or create a screenplay for a TV series about it.
Moreover, for some years, my family was terribly poor. I remember that once my mother told us, my brothers and I, to look everywhere around the house for remaining money from better times, which might have been left in the pockets of old jackets or similar places. I managed to find some coins stuck in the crack of the kitchen door. I was ecstatic. I have no idea how they ended up there, the important thing was that we could buy something to eat, at least for that day.
Long story short, I lived experiences that a child should never live. Probably, due to these situations, I started suffering, from the age of 6, from vitiligo and alopecia areata, two autoimmune diseases. Vitiligo consists of depigmentation of the skin in various parts of the body, while alopecia areata consists of patchy hair loss. These two autoimmune diseases do not cause any type of pain or physical discomfort, but they can lead to profound psychological and self-esteem problems, especially for a 6-year-old child.
What I Was Like Before Discovering Personal and Spiritual Growth
My path of introspection began, without me wanting it, when I was still just a child. Vitiligo and alopecia areata forced me to do a work of inner analysis, which I started since I was little: I was a 6-year-old child who reflected on the meaning of life, on the existence of God, on the reasons for the existence of evil and all the other great existential questions that man has been asking himself for millennia. In some ways, I was a child like all the others, but, at the same time, I was very peculiar.
“There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own Soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
– Carl Jung
As you can well imagine, I paid a steep price for the tendency not to stop at the appearance of reality. Both vitiligo and alopecia areata gave rise to endless problems and pains in my childhood, adolescence and early adult life:
- I felt anger and frustration towards the world and life in general, I constantly asked myself: “why me?”
- I often lost my temper and got angry over stupid things, even with my family members.
- My inner monologue was a succession of negative thoughts.
- I was locked in a prison of negativity.
- I lived in a world of fears and worried about things that would never happen.
- In my mind, catastrophic images repeated themselves, which became movies about how everything would go wrong.
- I had no direction, I was completely lost.
- I had no idea what my purpose in life could be.
- I had countless negative habits, including, the worst, spending whole days playing video games.
- Shyness prevented me from expressing my true personality: at large family dinners, during parties, I hoped that no one would speak to me, I was even afraid to ask someone to pass me the water.
- I believed that everyone was judging and making fun of me, this belief made me always distrust others.
- I always ended up being on the margins of every group I was part of, everyone seemed to avoid me at all costs.
- During my adolescence, the thing that hurt me the most was not being able to meet a girl. I was constantly rejected, which only pushed me further and further into an abyss of negativity within my mind.
My Lowest Point
When I was about seventeen, I couldn’t take my problems anymore. I couldn’t take living in a constant state of negativity and dissatisfaction. After watching the movie “Into the Wild”, I promised myself that as soon as I had the chance to travel, I would. I naively believed that all the problems I had were caused by the environment I was in and the people around me.
My biggest dream was to leave the small town where I lived, hoping that my life would finally change. In my third year of high school, I discovered an association that carried out exchanges around the world: I immediately seized the opportunity and enrolled in their program.
To my great surprise, after various aptitude tests, I was accepted for a whole year exchange student in Brazil. I was ecstatic at the idea of finally being able to leave my problems behind. Despite being hosted by an incredible family, to whom I will be forever grateful, all the problems I had in Italy followed me to Brazil, on the other side of the world.
In fact, after a few months of my arrival in my new home, I made the dramatic discovery that absolutely nothing had changed in the quality of my inner and outer experiences.
I understood this when, one evening, I went to a club with some schoolmates. Everyone seemed to be having fun. I, on the other hand, as usual, was a prisoner of my mind and my negative thoughts. I was afraid to talk to anyone. I stayed all night apart, sitting on a couch, to avoid being judged by others. I had hit rock bottom.
At that point, I came to the conclusion that I couldn’t run away from myself, I had to admit that I was the cause of 99% of my problems.
“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.”
– Marcel Proust
The Beginning of Change
My journey towards the best version of myself began with this realization. The first step for any lasting change begins with taking responsibility for the problems you face.
In the following weeks, I began to search online for information on how to relate to women, effectively and non-neurotically, the problem that, at the time, made me suffer the most. To my great surprise, I found all the answers I was looking for.
If it was possible to learn to relate to women, in a healthy way, even for those who had no clue how to do it, how many other problems could I overcome in my life, which until then I had believed to be unsolvable?
From that moment on, I began a real non-stop journey within myself: I never stopped looking for solutions to my problems and strategies that would help me live life to the fullest in all areas.
My Integral Evolution
I had become obsessed with wisdom. I began to devour books, attend conferences and courses from which I learned the principles that lead to living the “good life”. From the problem I had in relating to girls, today, I have come to study non-duality and spiritual enlightenment.
I don’t know about you, but I want to be satisfied in all areas of life, whether it is having a fantastic relationship, having excellent self-esteem or directly realizing the essence of God. Every aspect of life deserves to be faced and understood.
To actualize my maximum potential, in all areas of my life, I had to develop a holistic approach to research, drawing from any source that could give me useful information or resources to overcome my problems – from psychology treatises to sacred texts.
This enormous wealth of wisdom has allowed me to carry out my Integral Evolution: I have stopped being the guy with a thousand problems, which I was 10 years ago. I have experienced firsthand that anyone can take back the reins of their life, even starting from the most adverse circumstances.
I firmly believe that each of us has the task of becoming everything we can be, otherwise the image of the person we could have become, but that we have chosen not to actualize, will haunt us forever.
“He who desires but acts not, breeds pestilence.”
– William Blake
Obviously, I am still committed to “sculpting my statue”, to perfecting myself, to actualizing my potential, to acting in an increasingly congruent way with the person I know I can be. Integral evolution is an always active process, there is no definitive point of arrival in our personal and spiritual growth.
The Achievement I’m Most Proud Of
After being on my Integral Evolution journey for about two years, I stopped perceiving vitiligo and alopecia areata as obstacles to my happiness.. In fact, if I had never suffered from them, you would not be here reading my words, my life would have been completely different, I would never have developed a great capacity for introspection and I would never have nurtured such a deep love for wisdom and knowledge. So I started to perceive them as fundamental catalysts for my personal and spiritual growth: this is precisely the achievement I am most proud of.
Suffering always indicates what the next step is to take, the unconscious part of yourself that needs to be illuminated. If you start to illuminate suffering with the light of awareness and wisdom, within a few years you will be a completely different person.
As you have understood from my story, my journey started from the bottom and today I have reached the point where I can say I am deeply satisfied with my life. I am convinced that if I had not discovered personal and spiritual growth, I would have taken an opposite path that would have led me to self-destruction, I would have forever remained locked in a prison of negativity. Fortunately, I chose to take control of my life and I hope to be able to help you do the same, through our work together.
How Can The Integral Life Coaching Program Help You?
I love wisdom. Wisdom saved me from an existence full of pain and despair. My purpose in life is to share with others what I learn from my constant research, after having tested its effectiveness firsthand. Personal growth and spiritual growth are my life, what I do every single day.
I started my path of spiritual and personal growth 10 years ago. I was a shy and disoriented guy, with no self-esteem or plans for the future. I had no more enthusiasm for life. I was trapped in negative thoughts that prevented me from living as I wanted and I couldn’t find a way out.
With the Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program, I want to help you overcome the challenges you are experiencing to become the best version of yourself. From our work together you can expect effective and targeted strategies to regain control of your life and finally find the satisfaction you are looking for.
The following is a list of topics that we can address together during the Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program:
Spirituality
- Understand the functioning of the ego
- Recognize the root of every human fear
- Recognize the root of every human conflict
- Explore the various aspects of God
- Discover the meaning of life
- Understand the reason for the existence of life
- Recognize the profound unity of all things
- Practice remaining in the I Am (practice recommended by Nisargadatta Maharaj)
- Engage in the practice of self-inquiry (practice recommended by Ramana Maharshi)
- Practice Kriya Yoga, a set of meditation techniques that safely awakens your kundalini and changes the chemistry of your body, permanently altering your state of consciousness.
- Live in harmony with the laws of the universe
- Understand the spiritual laws of success
- Learn how to co-create with the universe
- Differentiate between desires of the ego and of the soul
- Discover the basis of true happiness
- Achieve an unshakable inner freedom independent of any external event
- Experience the intrinsic wonder of life
- Understand how your level of consciousness determines the quality of your life
- Recognize the eternal truth at the basis of your being
- Understand the infinite aspect of reality
- Find an answer to the existential questions that have afflicted man since the dawn of time
Emotional balance
- Free yourself from chronic pessimism
- Change the limiting beliefs that make you relive the past in the present
- Free yourself from repetitive negative emotions
- Free yourself from repetitive irrational fears
- Face and overcome loneliness
- Increase self-esteem
- Believe in yourself and your abilities
- Maintain calm in difficult situations
- Cultivate inner tranquility
Understanding and applying the principles of success
- Cultivate patience and persistence
- Cultivate the habits that facilitate success, whatever the word “success” means to you
- Identify your strengths, those abilities in which you tend to naturally excel
- Identify your values
- Cultivate your abilities
- Identify your purpose in life
Interpersonal Relationships
- Improve your relationship with the opposite sex
- Communicate effectively with important people in your life
- Make new friends
- Improve relationships with your family members
Productivity
- Get out of a period of stagnation
- Plan your ideal life and identify your short and long-term goals
- Create an action plan to get the job of your dreams
- Change negative habits in a lasting way
- Create spirals of positivity, through which respecting your values becomes automatic
- Use the compound effect to obtain ever greater results
- Learn to maintain concentration on a single task for a long time
- Increase discipline and motivation
- Become more effective in everything you do
- Understand when it is right to abandon your goals
Financial Freedom
- Understand that you can create any vision you have
- Learn how to create a successful product or service
- Understand the characteristics of a successful business
- Improve your relationship with money
- Understand the key behaviors that lead to financial freedom
Learn how to stand out from the thousands of businesses that are created every day
Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program: BOOK NOW A FREE 30-Minute Discovery Call
To learn more about my approach and see if we are a good fit for each other, I offer a free 30-minute discovery call. During this call, we can discuss your goals and aspirations and you can ask any questions you may have.
Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call with me to experience what it would be like to work together. We’ll have an informal chat where I start to get to know you and what you’re looking for and you’ll get a taste of what it’s like to work with me.
It’s absolutely free, no strings attached. Don’t miss the opportunity to pick my brain. Just send me an email with a brief introduction about yourself, clarifying what challenges you want to overcome on your journey.
To book your free discovery call, simply fill out the contact form with a brief introduction about yourself. I will respond as soon as possible to confirm a time that works for both of us. I look forward to the opportunity to support you on your journey of self-discovery.
My Commitment and Your Commitment During The Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program
Life coaching is not a magic wand. Changing your life and expressing your potential to the fullest will not be easy. If it were, we would all be happy and satisfied and, as you well know, it is not so. Achieving your goals will require time and dedication.
I can’t promise you that you will be able to achieve the result you want in a certain amount of time. Or that everything will resolve as if by magic. What I can do, however, is help you ask yourself the right questions and find the best path you can take to become the best version of yourself. Walking that path is up to you alone.
The Integral Evolution Life Coaching Program Is Not for You If…
Life coaching is not medical or psychological therapy. It does not replace medical, psychological or psychiatric support. For this reason, I cannot work with you if:
- You suffer from psychological problems such as depression, panic attack, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, eating disorders, anger management disorders, etc.
- You are dependent on alcohol or drugs.
- You are dealing with trauma related to serious violence.
Furthermore, my consultations are not suitable for dogmatically religious people. My approach is based on learning and drawing lessons from any valid source, without cultural or religious constraints. To get the best out of working together, people must be willing to do the same.
By purchasing the Integral Evolution coaching program, you agree to take 100% responsibility for the actions you may take after the consultations and their consequences.